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Walter,
wherever you are, we know you were never big on ceremony and you’re
probably bitching right now because we’re taking the time to remember
and eulogize you instead of drinking at the bar, but not to worry…
You’ve known us all long enough to know we’re not going to go very long
without a few cocktails. So have a little patience with us as we honor
your memory.
Some of us knew Walter better than others. Some of us saw him almost
daily, others only once a year through our drunken haze at the annual
Ritz Pick Me Up Customer Appreciation Party. But, to have known Walter
at all was an honor and a privilege. To those of you who knew him best
and longest -- Roland, Don, Gary, Donald and Ray – we can only imagine
the depth of your loss and envy you for the time you had with him and
the countless memories you shared.
As for our own collective recollections of Walter, when we think of him,
it is with admiration and respect. Admiration for the fact that, more
than 27 years ago, he and his business partner Alex created the
Roosterfish, a successful gay bar that still endures. And, respect
because they did so during a time when it was still difficult to even
live your life as a gay man let alone open a business that catered to
us.
Many of us
weren’t around when the bar first opened in 1979, Yet we’ve all heard
the stories about the community complaints, police hassle and city and
state bureaucrats trying to close the place. But, try as they might,
nothing and no one could stop Walter. Even when Alex died, and he had to
run the place alone, Walter persevered. Whatever obstacle he was
confronted with, he either found a way around it or more likely simply
steamrolled over it. And, all of us here today, owe Walter a debt of
gratitude for what it’s taken over the years to open our beloved
Roosterfish and to keep it open.
The same perseverance he showed in business, he showed in his daily
life. Age, illness and even the loss of his leg not only didn’t slow him
down, they each only made him more determined to enjoy what remained of
his life. None of us ever once saw Walter feel sorry for himself.
Whatever befell him, he, like his Packard, was a classic that just kept
rolling on. Whether it was looking 20 years younger in fabulous drag,
matching us drink for drink at the bar or chasing and -- more frequently
than not -- catching some hot young guy, Walter lived his life with the
kind of style and flair that would make any gay man, whatever age,
proud.
In
closing, hopefully right now Walter is sitting next to Alex in the
gayest part of heaven smiling down on us and the Roosterfish realizing
that what they created was not just a neighborhood bar. Instead, it was
an entirely new, distinct neighborhood – a neighborhood of friends and
extended family with, of course, a smattering of current, former and, in
all likelihood, future lovers, that would not have existed but for this
wonderful place he and Alex created.
Walter, thank you for the Roosterfish and thank you for brightening our
lives by sharing yours with us. We love you, we’ll miss you, but we’ll
never forget you. |